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| Want To Turn Your Friendship Into A Flame, Posted On - 7/22/2007 4:07:24 AM |
She’s been your buddy for a while now. You’ve always asked for her advice on everything from work to women- until she became a woman in question. So what should you do when you start to see your female buddy in a different light?
If you’re looking to turn your good pal into someone more than a friend, you’ll have to change her perception of you. The following strategies will help her see you in a different light. Always remember, you need’nt be covert or sneaky about efforts to court her- in fact, the tips below should be of great help.
Flaunt Yourself
Highlight the physical characteristics you posses that you know appeal to her. Don’t tell her outright that you have large biceps est.-this will come off as egotistical and very tacky. Instead, try to subtly accentuate these body parts or characteristics. And make sure you are well dressed and smell great each and every time you see her. In the past, you may have allowed her to see you all sweaty after the gym, but you now have too look impeccable every time you see her.
No Guy Talk
Curb all guy talk in her presence. In order to start the transition from friend to flame, you have to put an end to all guy talk when you’re around her. That is, stop talking about other women you’re dating or have dated in the past, and don’t comment on other women in general. For her to consider changing her perception of you, you need to treat her like any other women you’re interested in.
Take her Out As A Date
Place her in an environment that will enable a shift in her perception. Rather than taking her to your usual hangouts, take her to some trendy restaurant. Wherever you choose to take her, make sure that it’s just the two of you. For your relationship to grow, try to maximize your time alone with her.
Act Chivalrous
Adopt polite boyfriend behavior when she’s around. For example, open the door for her, pick her up and drive her home, start paying for meals and drinks, and so on. Your new chivalrous attitude will give her a taste of what you’d be like in a relationship.
Body Language
Use suggestive body language. Instead of telling her how you feel, try hinting at it with your body language. Make frequent eye contact, and gently touch her shoulder, back and waist. Compliment her often so she knows you’re paying attention. Start this kind of behavior subtly; if she responds well, move on to more suggestive behavior.
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