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| What turns a sexy woman off, Posted On - 3/5/2007 8:38:32 PM |
Everyone stands at attention when a sexy woman crosses their path. But not many know what to do when it comes to holding her attention.
Here's a tip : stop working towards attracting her attention. In fact, it's better to know what not to do. Here's a handy guide of things to avoid when interacting with a sexy woman.
Don't impress her
First off, don't try to impress her by talking about yourself. Don't tell her how much money you make, your position at office etc, etc. Belive it or not, she's heard all that and more a million times from men who are smarter, better looking and more successfull than you are.
Instead, ask her genuine, open ended questions about herself, and pay attention to her answers. You'll be amazed at how this creates an attraction.
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Don't ask her out
Don't ask her if "you can take her out on a date" or if she"has a boyfriend".
Questions like these activate subconscious processes that lead to autopilot answers like "No". It's the same mechanism that is at work when a salesperson asks you, "Can I help you?" and you promptly reply, "No".
Switch the question to, "What specifically are you looking for?" and you will get a better answer.
Instead, "Let's continue this conversation over coffee sometime," works a heck of a lot better than, "Can I take you out?"
No Compliments please
Don't shower her with compliments about her beauty, looks, etc. She's already heard it all. It will just lead her to think you're trying your luck with her.
Treat her like a human being, ask her about her hopes, dreams and desires from a place of genuine interest, not the ulterior motive of making an impression on her.
Although it sounds obvious that is actually a very subtle shift in thinking for most men - she'll pick up on the fact that you're not lusting after her. You will stand apart from all the other guys she's talked to. And she'll start wondering what's different about you.
Attraction is a give and take, it has a rhythm to it. Switch from sincere to teasing, and back again - it's this switching that creates attraction.
Give her an option
Don't asl her, "So where do you want to go?" Take the lead, and suggest serveral places - "Hey, let's go here." Or ask her "Does that sound good to you?"
If she doesn't want to go there, then ask her for suggestions.
Have your own life
Don't plan your life around her - live your own life. This kills more relationship than probable anything else: woman want to be with strong guy, they don't want to be surrogate mommy to a little kid. So play it by ear. A lot of these things are common sense. But then, one tends to slip on that once too often. |
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